tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4079681358332005341.post7519595986969272238..comments2023-03-22T08:50:03.413-04:00Comments on Diary of a Scapegoat: List of Grievances - Part 4DisturbedAngelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18225187766715006090noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4079681358332005341.post-27029205517215185782011-09-19T20:57:02.985-04:002011-09-19T20:57:02.985-04:00She sounds so much like my own NM. I had written d...She sounds so much like my own NM. I had written down a list of the craziness myself and had never posted it to my blog, but reading yours helped me work up the guts. I had started writing a while back and put it aside, but it's time to get back to it. It's sad that my mother and your mother never met, yet they are just alike. Coincidence? We know better. But they are, in a way, Siamese twins, joined at their matching personality disorders.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4079681358332005341.post-69386557431678788502011-09-11T00:44:03.615-04:002011-09-11T00:44:03.615-04:00hey doll i never liked your mum! before or after! ...hey doll i never liked your mum! before or after! this list don't change it. except now i know how annoying she is.<br />i stopped making a list once i realized i couldn't fit an infinite number of things on it. once you've been burned once, you've been burned a billion.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4079681358332005341.post-35854649228038868022011-09-08T01:35:18.358-04:002011-09-08T01:35:18.358-04:00My counselors call these lists surveying the damag...My counselors call these lists surveying the damage. He explained that it is important to know where to repair the damage. I complained once that I seemed to be going over some of the same ground. His reply soothed me, "You were attacked from so many angles, it will take time to sort it all out." I finally stopped making lists after a couple of years. I do like Gibson's idea about finally accepting that some people are grizzly bears. Thanks Kiki for sharing that idea.Ruthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07083142637240943607noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4079681358332005341.post-81574524953808169882011-09-06T09:17:28.430-04:002011-09-06T09:17:28.430-04:00Ugh. These lists are always so horrible to write, ...Ugh. These lists are always so horrible to write, such a painful experience, but they are SO valuable because they validate it all in black and white. Plus, you always have a resource to run back to and read in those weird moments when you think, "Wait, did this happen? Could it really have been this bad?"<br /><br />I'm always re-reading my list, just like Jonsi mentioned. <br /><br />And ugh. So sorry that you're part of the ACoN brigade, but keep steadfast in your truth campaign!Kikihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07682023318174229038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4079681358332005341.post-17217922710505939442011-09-03T19:27:14.206-04:002011-09-03T19:27:14.206-04:00This looks a lot like the list I made about NMIL a...This looks a lot like the list I made about NMIL and EFIL. It REALLY makes a powerful statement to see things in a list form. You just can't deny what kind of people they are when it's all written out so clearly like this. I go back and re-read mine every once in a while, just because it great proof of why we have done the things we've done.Jonsihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17517677634712242866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4079681358332005341.post-2468481867941503152011-09-02T18:35:45.146-04:002011-09-02T18:35:45.146-04:00@ Lisa - LOL I've been waiting for you to comm...@ Lisa - LOL I've been waiting for you to comment. If you hated my NM before, you're REALLY not gonna be happy with her now after reading all of these! ;o)DisturbedAngelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18225187766715006090noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4079681358332005341.post-27959517376370068902011-09-02T17:29:23.403-04:002011-09-02T17:29:23.403-04:00oh my goodness, wow.
thanks for sharing!oh my goodness, wow.<br />thanks for sharing!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com